#MotivationMonday#SelfEsteemMonday You are FINE! 😊 There’s nothing wrong with you, there’s something wrong with people who think they have the “right way” and try to shove it in you no matter what! 🤔 When you have anything that’s makes you insecure it’s easy to let loud speaking people boss you around or make you feel out of place but RIGHT NOW I’m telling you the secret to us “happy people”...it’s to do what truly aligns with what you know or believe, relentlessly and regardless of others input! (Constructive feedback aside) 🙌🏼☺️ I know that not touching this bad boy will cause it to heal faster, so I have to face a bunch of people in public who think/say, “YOU GOTTA POP DATT” but if I want to succeed at something I KNOW, I have to continue down the path without being affected by these people. THAT is tough at first but eventually you feel like you’re being given advice by people who don’t have a clue and then you realize that most people don’t have a clue but they have an opinion (and we all know how that line goes 😂). Love yourself and this week work on being more outright and confident on ONE thing you are shy or insecure about! #Love#yourself#perpetuate#positivity#shut#negativity#down#motivation#selfesteem#confidence#teamacne#beyondtheweak
Henüz tüm fotoğraflar elime geçmedi.. O yüzden yıllardır hayal ettiğim pastanın etrafında toplanan güzel kalpli tüm dostlarıma gelsin sıradaki parçam olur mu 😊 başta ev sahibi #bff @chidemm olmak üzere, @arzumsibel @zzaynep @seyhantevkan @sanemcoban @nazozan @cozdenak ve @begumdrahor @esraimnc @nilicin @nihanbade @tgb.lmn.gykl #bettyboop says “life is too short for #negativity “ ✌🏻
Goddamn I can be so negative⛔ and critical of everything sometimes haha. G'morning⛅ everyone. Woke up to another Blizzard❄😔. I need summer☀🌻 to come back soon lol. Have a magnificent day folks. Stay beautiful🌸. One👆 World🌎, One👆 Love❤. 👉@introvertedtoker
Working with people who are angry, depressed or who have an almost intractable negativism can be challenging. I like to share with my clients the story of the two dogs: Both dogs, at separate times, walk into the same room. One comes out wagging his tail while the other comes out growling.
A woman watching this goes into the room to see what could possibly make one dog so happy and the other so mad. To her surprise she finds a room filled with mirrors.
The happy dog found a thousand happy dogs looking back at him while the angry dog saw only angry dogs growling back at him. #lionheartpsychotherapy#therapy#psychodynamic#depression#anger#rage#buddhism#negativity#bepositive#attitude#attitudematters
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Find it tricky to turn that voice in your head off that’s always spouting negativity?
Next time this happens (and you are somewhere you feel comfortable doing this)
1️⃣stick our your tongue
2️⃣gently hold it secure with your teeth
3️⃣try and hear the voice in your head
Even though your voice in your head doesn’t seem to have a physical element to it, your tongue does enable it. So if you hold your tongue, your inner voice shuts up!!
I know some... @meetmaryam @rxchinem @mrhextheproducer @the_tonismarts @a_kiitan @bucunmie @kitandavid @anng_mason @maryamserene @gold_wigs @elbee_tsl
@Regranned from @rhodetails - It was supposed to be a setback, but the Setback became a life changing Comeback.
Do you know anyone whose adversity became an opportunity to shine and live to the fullest?
MENTION them... #perspective#reaction#analysis#negativity#positivity#rhodetailsTobbyrhodes - #regrann
Going fishing with Grandma! .
Day 181 - judgement
To come to a conclusion. And in this case, a judgement on you and the way you feel, the way you act, the way you react.
It is inevitable unfortunately, but it is manageable. The way in which others see you should have little significance. But unfortunately the human brain for some reason one way or another wires us to please others. To care about what people say. But it's something we can train and learn to deal with.
It's not the judgement itself that matters, it's the way in which you react to that judgement. You're not defined by other people's decision, nor your own. You're defined by the way in which you respond to the decisions you've made, to that of others.
You are the one in control in these circumstances, and you can conquer through any negativity that comes your way.
I’ve talked about this a bit previously. No situation is a wasted situation. When a situation is wasted is only when we do not learn from it. You might not see it this way but everything you go through is there to help you grow. You become a stronger person through all those negative moments. How many situations have you allowed to go wasted? Moments you could’ve learned something from and changed into a positive for your future.
Each time you have a negative situation, I want you to have your cry, get mad, and then stop and think rationally about what you learned from this situation. For instance, your boyfriend cheated on you. Your first instinct might be to get angry, cry and blame yourself even though it’s not your fault. Have that cry, feel those feelings and then stop. Now think about what you can learn from your situation. Your boyfriend cheated on you, realize that this situation can teach you to look for the signs of someone treating you badly. It can teach you that it’s not your fault if someone treats you terribly but that you shouldn’t stay with that person if they do. It should show you that you deserve better.
Take your situations and learn from it or it will go wasted.
#goodvibesonly Life experiences have taught me a lot, and it’s not always been easy....I wanted to thank @leepycroft for providing me coaching on how to create boundaries around certain situations, my head is clear and I know how to handle #negativity .....the outcome for me, I don’t feel guilty about it like I used to ;) I can’t save everyone like I thought I had to....I drive the situation, the situation doesn’t drive me.